Saturday, August 11, 2012

sex-for-contracts

Its not usual for me to be so erz.. politcally commentarical.. but this is my job scope for now... it has been so for past 4 years.. -contracting- so I have to comment on this, as it really upsets me... the misuse of sex. 

i mean, at work we understand that wasting extra effort to bring in tenderers to quote is meaningless, tenderers whom we know cannot fulfil the minimal technical requirements although transperancy requires us to give them chance. 

but sex, since young, we've been taught to respect. Since young, teachers in schools made us aware of sexually transmitted diseases. They were promoting the abstinence from sex to the females and the use of condoms to the males. Very contradictory but assuming you read freakonomics, you'd understand. 

following that, the Da Vinci Code promoted sex as a holy process, a holy ritual, a holy exchange between two clean individuals. 

yet on the other side of the scale, i know my poly mates who picks guys up at clubs, have sex in the car at mount faber, in toilets, lifts, i know my XXXX user who does it at some random cubicle with his ex, the XXX user who visited geylang. A whole bunch of folks who maybe enjoys it, yearns for it, habitually does it. SIGH. 

but its against my comprehension, how a married woman, (whom i hope was in love with her husband), can stoop to that. or rather, married women. SIGH. DOUBLE SIGH.

and on another spectrum, those married couples who should be giving birth are maybe some not having enough sex or abstaining from it due to societal issues. What a world!

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